Thursday, November 28, 2013

Blessings...

On this day we stop to give thanks for all we have been given.  We remember all the blessings we have and, at least for one day, don't dwell on those things we don't have or that haven't gone quite right in our lives.  As we celebrate this Thanksgiving I am overwhelmed with how truly blessed I am.  This year I am thankful for...

My wonderful, loving family.  
My four beautiful children that are my reason for getting up each morning. 
A husband who loves me for exactly who I am both good and bad and supports me in everything.  He is the love of my life and my best friend.
Parents who have always been there for me and showed me how to be a caring, compassionate woman and mother.
A brother and sister who love me, my husband, my crazy children, and who I depend on more than they probably realize.
For an extended family that is always there for me and thinks nothing of driving 2 hours to come visit for 45 minutes.
My future sister in law who has not just accepted but embraced all of us and become one of the family.  I can't wait until she is "officially and legally" one of US.
For wonderful friends who have been there for me through good times and bad with shoulders to cry on, a good joke to make me laugh, or a glass of wine (or something stronger) when needed.
My ballet students who make me smile and make going to "work" not work at all.
For a church and church family that helps me see God at work in the world every day.
For my husband's firm that allows us to live the life we have and let me stay home and be Mommy.
And of course, on this turkey day, for the food on my table, especially the pumpkin pie.  Yummy!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING to all of you.  
May your life been filled with family, friends, good food, and all the blessings life has to offer.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Husband to the Rescue

Normally the fact that my family is larger than average doesn't even cross my mind.  In the back of my mind I realize I do more laundry than other families, we eat more groceries, we take up more space, etc. but all of that becomes normal so I don't really think about it.  But I never feel more like a large family with four young children until the stomach bug comes to visit.  Then....well, then it hits me what having four children means.  What it means it that it will be a full month (at least) until everyone is feeling better, the laundry is caught up, and we can resume our normal lives.

Baby Ava started us off with some kind of tummy bug over three weeks ago.  I blogged about how pathetic she was here.  She had trouble shaking this bug and it hung around for a week or so.  Then John David came down with it.  I wasn't surprised.  While all four of my children have inherited a weak stomach from me, John David is far and away the worst.  If there is a stomach bug going around he will catch it without fail.  He was sick one weekend and bounced back quickly.  Yeah!  Just when I thought the rest of us would escape the crud it knocked us out flat.  Ella and Harrison came down with it this past weekend.  If you are counting that is the third weekend in a row someone in our household has been sick.  Ella was still feeling a little puny on Monday so she stayed home from school but by Monday afternoon was back to 100%.  You might think we would  be in the clear at that point.  All four had been sick so we should be on the mend.  You would be oh so very wrong.  Monday afternoon  was when everything started to go downhill fast.

I picked up John David from school Monday and he seemed fine.  He was animatedly telling me all about his day in Kindergarten when out of nowhere he got violently ill all over my car.  He then proceeded to be ill every 5 to 10 minutes for the rest of the night.  We keep a stash of anti-nauseau medication on hand at all times and gave some to John David but it did nothing for him.  By 11:00pm that night he was so weak he couldn't even lift his head.  We've been through this before with him and know how easy it is for children to become dehydrated when they are that ill.  We kept having him drink small sips of ginger ale every time he got sick hoping to at least keep him hydrated.  When he was three and we were on vacation in South Carolina he came down with a vicious tummy bug that landed him in the hospital with dehydration and a minor tear in the lining of his esophagus.  Having been through that once before we were watching for any blood when he vomited, and bingo, around 2:30am we had blood.  Very scary.  By that time the vomiting had slowed to about once every 45 minutes to an hour.  We gave him another dose of zofran and crossed our fingers that it would work.  If not, we were prepared to head to the ER at Arkansas Children's Hospital.  Thankfully, this time the zofran worked, the vomiting slowed way down, and he was able to get some sleep.  We talked to our pediatrician on Tuesday and followed doctors orders.  Unfortunately there is not much they can do for a minor tear in the esophagus.  We kept him on the zofran to keep the vomiting from returning, kept him on clear liquids, and didn't let him eat most of the day.  He was not happy about the no eating thing.  He spent part of the day watching Food Network and by the time late afternoon rolled around he was complaining of being starving.  I don't blame him.  After watching Cupcake Wars and all sorts of other yummy food shows I would have been starving too.

By Tuesday afternoon I was again feeling hopeful that things were looking up.  John David was better, the twins were back to normal, Ava was fine, and husband and I had escaped.  That was when Ava woke up in the middle of her nap sick again.  It seemed like this tummy bug was determined to take us all down and by Tuesday night I had fallen victim.  Now husband was the only one left standing.  And he did a fabulous job coming to the rescue.  He ran carpool, handled meals, did laundry, and waited on me in my puny condition.  Thank goodness for him or I don't know how we would have survived.  I hesitate to write that so far he hasn't come down with this bug.  I know the second I do he will come in the front door, home early from work because he is sick.  I pray that doesn't happen.  Not for our sake, although I don't want anymore sickness in the house, but for his sake.  Speaking from experience this tummy bug was painful and I hate to see him suffer too.

Right now, as I sit here and type this blog, I have most of the windows in the house open, even though it is 59 degrees outside.  The house is a bit chilly, but I don't care.  I am airing things out.  I want the germs out and fresh, clean, non-infected air in so hopefully we can all get better and not start another round of this.  Maybe this weekend we can actually do something outside of these four walls.  Maybe we can all go to church together for the first time in a month.  Maybe we can spend our weekend having fun as a family instead of being sick.  But hey, we did get sick as a family.

Monday, November 4, 2013

Pumpkin Patch Take 3

Our third trip to the pumpkin patch this year was a field trip with John David's kindergarten class.  Ava was sick with the tummy bug so she and the twins stayed home with my mom and just John David and I got to go.  It was nice to get to do something just he and I.  With four of them and only one of my it is hard to get as much one on one time with each of them as I would like.

The weather was absolutely gorgeous the day of John David's field trip and the children had a fabulous time.  As I've said before, the pumpkin patch is much more involved than it was when I was growing up and this patch did not disappoint.  They had lots of activities to keep us all entertained.

First order of the day.....pig races.

Then it was time to try and get a class photo.

Definitely hard to get 15 5 and 6 year olds to all look at the camera and smile at the same time.
 But they are adorable just the same.

Next up....a hay bale maze. 



And then off to the petting zoo to feed the goats


And pet the donkey


This pumpkin patch didn't have the huge pit of corn to play in but they did have a hay bale play area with a slide and tunnel.

I'm King of the hay mountain.


 Cow Train....He loved his heifer...Daisy

Hayride with his sweet friend J.  I hear about J all the time.  



 John David's class got to have a picnic lunch at the pumpkin patch before picking out that perfect pumpkin.  Here is his selection.


The result of all our trips to the pumpkin patch......


12 total pumpkins plus our Jack O Lantern.

Now that's a lot of pumpkin.  Good thing we love pumpkin pie!


Pumpkin Patch!

Picking out pumpkins at the pumpkin patch is a family tradition.  It is something my family did when we were all younger (and older) children and it is a tradition husband and I have carried on with our brood.  There have been years when I wanted to throw in the towel, forget about ever going to the patch again, and just buy my pumpkins at the grocery store.  But....then I think of all the memories I have of trips to the pumpkin patch from my childhood and know that good or bad, stressful or easy, I want those memories for my children.  So it is always back to the patch for another year.

This year was no exception.  Collectively we made three, yes three, trips to the pumpkin patch.  Once for a birthday party and then two school field trips and we had a blast every time.  In order not to really over do it on the visits to the pumpkin patch, we combined our annual family trip with the birthday party.  That meant husband wasn't able to go with us but I just thought four trips in one year was a tad too much.

The weather on our first trip to the patch for a friend's birthday party wasn't great and wouldn't you know it, I forgot my real camera.  I took a few shots with my phone but they were't anything special so no photos from trip number one.

Trip number two was a field trip for the twins' preschool class.  On the drive out to the pumpkin patch the fog was horrible and I was worried the weather would be nasty and make for a not so fun field trip but as soon as we got there the sun came out and the weather was wonderful.  Yeah!

These days the pumpkin patch is so much more involved that it was when I was a child.  It isn't just about picking out the perfect pumpkin, although that is important, there are all sorts of other activities as well.

There are farm animals to feed and pet.















A totally fun hayride



A corn pit in which to roll and play.







All of them LOVE this corn pit.  I don't know what it is about rolling around in a huge pile of corn that makes it so fun but without a doubt every single child had a blast in the corn.  Maybe I need one of these?

After all that fun comes the serious part.  Selecting the perfect pumpkin.

Harrison was in and out quickly.  Ready to get back to the fun on the corn pit and hay bale maze.  

His selection.




Ella took more time to look and study and find the perfect one.

And Ava just wanted to show everyone she was a big girl and could do anything the big kids could do.





 Trip #2 is a SUCCESS!